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Kennett, Missouri · Friday, November 20, 2009
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Posted Friday, May 8, 2009, at 1:19 PM
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This morning I was informed by friends of our family that someone very dear to us passed away Thursday evening. The news was, as you can imagine, difficult to fathom, and saddened me very much.

I have been praying every day for Miss Lindsey Pruett, and her family and friends, since hearing about her tragic accident on Sunday.

Very few people know this, but nearly two years ago Lindsey made an impact on my family that we will never forget. My son, Holden, who was only four-years-old at the time, almost drowned in a swimming pool had it not been for Lindsey.

As a mother, I cannot put into words the emotions I went through during this event. My husband and I were more vulnerable than we have ever been in our lives when we, from a nearby distance, realized that our son was struggling for his life in the depths of the pool water that day. Before either one of us could make it to the area he was in, young Lindsey, a life-long swimmer, selflessly, and heroically came to his rescue.

We did not personally know Lindsey or her family prior to this incident. I only knew of her from previously following her successes made known in the newspaper and community over the years.

However, from the moment I saw her wrap her arms around my tiny child and bring him to the surface that day, she became very special to me.

Since then, I have always thought of Lindsey as "Our Angel."

When she graduated from Kennett High School last year in the class of 2008, I took a moment to go over to her and tell her, again, how very special she was to our family and what a tremendous young adult she was in our eyes. Together we cried, as I explained that when I think of my son, there is a part of me that always thinks of her, too.

Today, I find myself crying, again, thinking about everything, alone. It is beyond difficult to accept that Lindsey is gone.

I cannot imagine what her mother is going through in this hour. I pray that God will someday grant her peace.

What a wonderful mother she must be, to have raised such an inspiring child.

Before I end this blog, I want to share something that someone sent me today. It was written by Lindsey, about herself, and I think it clearly defines how her wisdom seemed beyond her years, and what an inspiration she truly was... to everyone.

"In life, we do things... Some, we wish we had never done & some we wish we could replay a million times. But, they all make us who we are & in the end, they shape & detail us. If we were to reverse them, we wouldn't be the same person we are today. So just live. Make mistakes. & have wonderful memories. But, never second guess who you are, where you've been, & most importantly where you're going."

-- Lindsey Pruett


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This is a beautiful tribute to Lindsey. Your words and hers may help her friends and family through such a difficult time.

-- Posted by Vickie on Sat, May 9, 2009, at 9:11 AM

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-- Posted by jackjames on Wed, May 20, 2009, at 10:55 AM

Deanna,

Thank you for this wonderful blog about my sweet daughter. I have been so touched by the prayers and thoughtfuless that have been lifted up for Lindsey, her family and myself. Kennett and the surrounding areas have been unexpectantly wonderful during this difficult time.

Lindsey was my only child and I raised her alone. It has always been Linz and me. I tried my best to raise her as a caring, thoughtful person, and from the responses given by our community, I think I did succeed in one thing in my life. She is my greatest accomplishment. My pride and joy. Of course, Lindsey was always special to me, but I now realize that she touched many lives and was special to many people in her short 19 years. As a mother, I can not think of a greater blessing than knowing this!

Thank you for your blog and God Bless you and your family!

Sincerely,

Belinda Madden

-- Posted by linzmom on Thu, May 21, 2009, at 7:48 PM

Thank you Belinda! My prayers are with you always.

-- Posted by deannacoronado on Tue, May 26, 2009, at 12:26 PM

Deanna,

I just wanted to thank you for sharing this story about Lindsey. Belinda & I have been friends for some 30 years and she & her family always have meant the world to me. I know Lindsey was quiet special, her sweet spirit will live on in her mom's heart. During this hard time, I have come to realize & see how Lindsey must have touched everyone she knew in some way. Thanks to everyone who continues to pray for Belinda & her family.

Darlene

-- Posted by tdtaylor on Tue, May 26, 2009, at 4:14 PM

wow that was really heartfelt, and yet sad that someone died so young. Seems like a lot of them are dying in car wrecks, usually due to some sort of negligence or speeding. It's sad that anyone at this age loses their life..

Which it's probably really hard on the young girl that was driving the vehicle also, knowing that it caused her friend's death and that she could possibly be charge with it.

R.I.P

-- Posted by sj83 on Thu, May 28, 2009, at 1:09 AM
Deanna Coronado's response:
Thank you for appreciating these sentiments. With all due respect sj83, I did want to note that this what I would describe as a freak accident, where inclement weather conditions played a major role, rather than negligence. The driver should absolutely not face any charges or judgments from anyone, simply because she was behind the wheel of the car in this case, in my opinion. She was a good long-time friend to Lindsey, who was also very vulnerable during the situation, and could have been killed as a result of the accident as well. I think the families and friends of those girls involved are simply praying for one another's healing in the aftermath. There seems to be a lot of respect and love between those involved.


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