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The ghost of Christmas' past...
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With Christmas right around the corner, I wanted to share a post I found by someone on the Web while doing what I do best during times of sheer boredom-- googling…
I have very fond memories of Christmas when I was a child…
We would always get a can of Christmas candy, a case of potato chips and a case of drinks, which would have to last my brother and I over the ten days of Christmas. We could have it whenever we wanted and however much we wanted, but when it was gone it was gone never to be seen again until the next Christmas.
We did not have lots of gifts but we appreciated what we did get. In our socks were an apple and an orange and some grapes. Christmas was the only time of year we got any fruit, and we had purity syrup, another treat only at Christmas.
My father would anxiously await the train bringing him a bottle of rum from St. John's for Christmas because that was the only time you could get liquor from a liquor store. The rest of the year they had to make their own so it was a big treat to get a bottle of controllers.
A few weeks before Christmas, the baking began. You could not go to the store and buy homemade bread, raisin bread, fruit bread, Christmas cakes or cookies. Everything was handmade and put away for Christmas. Other than Christmas, it was just homemade bread and if we were lucky raisin buns or molasses buns, along with a few tarts every now and then to finish off our meals.
(On Christmas morning), after breakfast, we would watch old Shirley Temple movies and could almost tell the full story by heart cause we watched them every Christmas, while we played with the stuff we got under the tree.
I sometimes wish Christmas today would be more like it used to be. Real trees, only up for a short period of time, family visiting each other, home made goodies and gifts but most of all the peace and tranquility of by gone years that has forever been lost except in our memories because of the commercialization of Christmas, the unrest in the world, and the crime and violence in our streets. I am only 28 years old, so unfortunately, the majority of my years spent celebrating Christmas were not like the above described. I regretfully am among a generation who, in my opinion, did not have the real luxury of learning the true meaning of Christmas, rather, like most children, I was spoiled and unappreciative of the gifts I received throughout my childhood. This is hard to admit, but for me, as an only child born in the early 80's, Christmas meant presents and lots of them. Christmas meant shopping trips to Macy's, Dillard's, Goldsmiths, Toys R Us… you name it. Christmas has absolutely been commercialized over the years and so have we, in a sense, as a people. In today's world it seems almost impossible to completely turn away from it all and raise my children differently, however, I have made myself a promise to not raise my children to be expectant little brats like I was growing up. It only hurt me, later in life, to be so "taken care of" early on. What do you think about Christmas today versus how it used to be and what are some of your fondest memories of holiday's spent in the past? Comments Showing comments in chronological order [Show most recent comments first] |
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I loved the story you found. And most all stories like those. My parents have similiars ones as well, and its heart warming to me.
I too wish for more "simply" Christmas myself. Actually, I would love to completely do away with the gift giving and just spend time on things that can't be bought. Like long walks, sitting by the fire and talking, you get my drift. Instead of gifts it would be nice to just donate to a worth cause and focus on the Christ child and the true meaning of Christmas...
My parents tell of stories that they remember of Christmas when they were youngsters.
Both my parents were poor and they never had enough money for the amount of children in the family, but they worked and worked hard. Never did they apply for any welfare or assistance.
My mother and father both had to quit school and work when they were just children( neither of my parents have a high school degree). to help make ends meet.
My parents tell of storied of Christmas and how it was the best time of their lives and how simple and how they learned to appreciate things in life, due to the fact that they did not have the everyday things that children have today. ie. candy, the only time that they got candy was at Christmas when santa would leave them a few chocolate drops, peppermint sticks and a few pieces of hard ribbon candy. They recieved one apple, one orange. The dolls my mother recieved from santa where of composition, the doll would be ruined if it got wet, or broke, they would never recieve another doll throughout the year until Christmas. My parents stated that there were a lot of Christmas' that they never had a tree.
I think that today we are all so selfish and we have brought our children up to not realize the real meaning of Christmas. which is so sad.
I know that this Christmas I am going to try and relive my parents Christmas and be Santa for them I have already gotten the Lg Compostion Doll, the wind up 1920 train set and the candy. So when Christmas morning rolls around, they will have relived part of their past with just the things from Santa.
Thank you for the article, It was wonderful.
I wish everyone in Southeast Missouri, has a wonderful and Merry Christmas. From Northwest Missouri family.
That story was truly amazing. As a child of the 70's, I never had the luxury of getting what I wanted when I wanted it; looking back I'm so thankful that was how it was. My dad worked on a farm and only received $75 a week in pay. I only received things at Christmas or on my birthday; I truly appreciated the Miss Beasley doll and the McDonald's restaurant I received when I was 5. That was my most memorable Christmas. I want my child to have nice things, but I will raise him with the knowledge of the TRUE meaning of Christmas and a thankful heart for what he does receive. Hopefully he will be a great philanthropist and give away his (older but still good)toys to those children less fortunate than he.
A lump of coal that was, is now a diamond memory:
Back in the 1940s, times were hard for many in Kennett and elsewhere, us included, as our single Mother strived to keep the family together and siblings and I fed.
I will always remember and cherish one especially difficult Christmas. Mother had explained to us that money was scarce and gifts would be minimal, but hope springs eternal in the very young. I was bent on a shiny set of two cowboy repeating cap pistols with real leather holsters and belt. These were the ultimate cap guns of the time, you could put in rolls of red caps and with every cock of the hammer, bang away with a little puff of smoke to your heart's content when playing cowboys and Indians with other boys. (and oft girls, though they did have to be taught to fall down properly when you yelled, "I got'cha")
On Christmas morning I eagerly grabbed my marked gift, but with an immediate twinge of disappointment, for the package was suspiciously light of weight. On opening, I found a small black toy pistol with a pasteboard holster. Not seen today, these toy pistols were made from molded sawdust and glue, with no moving parts and painted black. Disappointed, yes, but I still wore it proudly on my hip all that Christmas day.
One of my chores was to fetch coal to feed the Warm Morning heater in the living room. As dusk fell, I was reminded to get a bucket of coal for the stove and another to last through the night. Now the coal we bought in those days was not of the pelletized variety often seen today, but came in pieces from small, to huge. At the coal pile, I took the hammer kept there and busted up enough big chunks of coal for two buckets, by now it was near full dark. With the first bucket of coal deposited in the stove and taking my six shooter this time, as one never knows what enemies may lurk in the dark, returned for the second bucket. I laid my holstered and trusty gun on a large lump of coal, filled the bucket and went back to the house.
A cold rain had come down during the night and was still falling the next morning when I went out to get coal. Horror of horrors as I espied what my eyes beheld. Atop the lump of coal, my sawdust and glue gun, along with it's pasteboard holster, had dissolved into an unrecognizable glob. Having forgotten and left my rig out overnight, the rain had wrought total destruction upon it. Yep, fearless cowboy now gone and like the little boy I was, I went crying to Mother.
Mother never said much about my woes, but a few days later she presented me with a gift of wonderment. Our Mother was always good at working with her hands, and in this instance she had taken a pine board, sawed, whittled and shaped it along with a wooden clothes pin into a rubber gun. I remember being fascinated as she took that cut strip of red rubber inner tube, placing it's loose ends into the clothes pin, stretching the closed loop out and onto end of the barrel. Taking aim, she gripped the handle, squeezed the clothes pin, and "splat," she shot the ironing board sitting in a corner across the kitchen. Forget cap pistols, I now had a real gun made by my Mother that would actually shoot.
And that is how a lump of coal came to be one of my fondest memories.
My childhood memories of christmas during the 1960's and early 1970's were of going out in the country with my family and finding a tree for christmas. We would cover the tree with those old fashioned large style christmas lights in blue, green, red, and yellow, hoping that one light would not blow out and ruin the entire string. We would then place on our tree, homemade chains of popcorn, the round multicolored glass ornaments, throw silver tintsel all over, finally topping the tree off with a star made from cardboard covered with foil. Our tree was beautiful and loved, because we did it all ourselves. We did not have many gifts to open on Christmas morning, but how excited we were to awake early and rush to the tree to find what Santa Had left behind. After opening our few, but appreciated gifts, we usually drove to Kennett and had Christmas dinner at one of my three Uncle's homes or at our Grandparent's. Christmas was about family not gifts.